You relationship no longer has the magic and romance that it had once?
I can assure you that you are not alone
Living with the same partner for a long time can become stable and comfortable, and, as a result, can also kill the spark that made your relationship so special in the first place.
Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas to reignite that magic:
1. A UNIQUE GIFT
Sit yourself down with paper and some colouring crayons. First draw a colourful couple, holding hands, with a smiling sun in the sky above them. Next put a label next to each person with their name on it, and in between them place a heart shape with the words “I Love You” written in the heart. You are almost done, now place the drawing inside a fromal business type envelope and type up an address label for it. Mark it “Private and Confidential” but send it to their business address. Go now and get it into the ail, to be delivered next day when you know they will be in the middle of their busy schedule and also that you know they will be there to receive it.
2. BE KIDS AGAIN
Try to bring back some childhood memories by taking your partner for a ride on the childrens swings in the local park
3. FUN WITH WATER
Go and buy 2 large water guns, organise a trip to the beach and when you get there get out the guns and hand one to your partner, then initiate a water fight.
4. A MASSAGE WITH AN INTERESTING TWIST
Go out and buy the following: a nice gift box, with coloured wrapping paper, then package up a little bottle of massage oil with a note that reads: Erotic Massage, Appointment Only, call: (and put your phone number)
5. LEVERAGING CHILDHOOD MEMORIES
Try to find out if there was something that your partner always wanted when they were young. A good place to start would be with family members or a good friend. Once you know, then go and get it. Not only will they be delighted with the gift but you will get loads of brownie points for going to the effort to find out about their childhood longing for it.
6. CLOUD STARING
Organise a picnic in the countryside, and as you lay on the ground with your partner invite them to look up at the sky and the clouds.
7. WALK ALONG THE BEACH
Draw a heart shape in the sand with a piece of wood,then sit inside the heart with your partner while cuddling close together and watching the sunset
8. DINNER OUTSIDE ON A WARM SUMMERS EVENING
At your favorite outdoor restaurant, eating under the stars and remark on the beauty of the universe and of course that of your companion.
9. TELL YOU PARTNER HOW GRATEFUL YOU ARE TO HAVE FOUND THEM
Leave a note saying: “Thank you for coming into my life” with a single rose someplace where your partner will find it
10. ADD SOME SPICE TO YOUR LOVE MAKING
Spicing up your love making is the fastest and most reliable method to bring the magic back into the relationship – quickly. Try a new position, ask your partner what they would like, present them with a little gift after making love or try caressing your partner after making love.
So many people have failed to recognise that the passion and magic that goes hand in hand with an intimate relationship are paramount to ensuring a long lasting passionate and meaningful companionship. Love making that is exciting bonds two people together in a meaningful way.
